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Want Good Sex? Then Use Your F***ing Words

Want Good Sex? Then Use Your F***ing Words

by Stacey Herrera | Jun 10, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 77 | June 10, 2026 Want Good Sex? Then Use Your F***ing Words When they ask, “Are you tired?” You know what comes next. After you’ve been together for a long while, it’s easy to predict the predictable. Which is the opposite of sexy. In this episode,...
What If Blue Light Is Changing the Way You Touch the One You Love?

What If Blue Light Is Changing the Way You Touch the One You Love?

by Stacey Herrera | Jun 3, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 76 | June 3, 2026 What If Blue Light Is Changing the Way You Touch the One You Love? There used to be these gaps of nothing. Waiting for a table. Standing in line. The 20 minutes or so before the thing started. And in those gaps, almost without thinking, we reached...
How Can You Be Irritated and Aroused at the Same Damn Time?

How Can You Be Irritated and Aroused at the Same Damn Time?

by Stacey Herrera | May 27, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 75  | May 27, 2026 How Can You Be Irritated and Aroused at the Same Damn Time? There are things that our partner says or does that grate on our very last nerve. But sometimes, as annoyed as we may be, we find desire bubbling to the surface. In this episode, Stacey...
This Is Your One and Only Sex Life. There Are No Do-Overs.

This Is Your One and Only Sex Life. There Are No Do-Overs.

by Stacey Herrera | May 20, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 74  | May 20, 2026 This Is Your One and Only Sex Life. There Are No Do-Overs. Long-term relationships have a way of settling into routine. Same person, same bed, same sex, possibly on the same night of the week. In this episode, Stacey gets into why the sexual...
Survival Instinct or Real Love? Why We Reach for Our Exes

Survival Instinct or Real Love? Why We Reach for Our Exes

by Stacey Herrera | May 6, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 72  | May 6, 2026 Survival Instinct or Real Love? Why We Reach for Our Exes Sometimes exes come back into your life because they missed you. But there are times when they return because their life unraveled without the structure you provided.. In this episode,...
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