There used to be these gaps of nothing. Waiting for a table. Standing in line. The 20 minutes or so before the thing started.

And in those gaps, almost without thinking, we reached for one another.

Now those moments are fewer.

In this episode, Stacey explores how screens are changing the way we touch each other. And what we’re losing in the spaces we used to fill with each other.

Suggested Reading:

• National Library of Medicine: Blue Light and Digital Screens Revisited: A New Look at Blue Light from the Vision Quality, Circadian Rhythm and Cognitive Functions Perspective
• Sleep Foundation: Blue Light: What It Is and How It Affects Sleep
• Harvard Health Publishing: Blue Light Has a Dark Side

The podcast churns the motor. The stack keeps it running.

On Substack, I dive into the juicy stuff that needs more than 15 minutes. The kinda things that make you go “humph, I never thought about it like that.”

Like why great sex requires emotional labor nobody talks about.

Or why men with smaller dicks are often better lovers (spoiler: it’s about skill, not size).

Or how asking, telling, and listening might be the only sex enhancement you actually need.

No hot takes or how-to guides. Instead, I’m laying down essays that sit at the intersection of nuance and oh damn!

If you’re tired of that Cosmo essential tips and tricks shit and you want the good stuff in the second half… join us.

People who talk about sex have better sex. Go figure?!

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