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Predictability Might Be Killing Your Sex Life (But You Don’t Know It)

Predictability Might Be Killing Your Sex Life (But You Don’t Know It)

by Stacey Herrera | Jul 1, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 80 | July 1, 2026 Predictability Might Be Killing Your Sex Life (But You Don't Know It) Bedrooms don’t magically transform into dens of desire after dark. Especially after a full day juggling life sh*t. That’s not how desire works—at any age, but especially in...
Uninhibited Sex After 40: Why Can’t You Let Go with the Person You Love?

Uninhibited Sex After 40: Why Can’t You Let Go with the Person You Love?

by Stacey Herrera | Jun 24, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 79  | June 24, 2026 Uninhibited Sex After 40: Why Can’t You Let Go with the Person You Love? The desire to let go and be uninhibited during sex is pretty common. Yet most of us struggle with it, especially in marriage and LTRs. After 40, we assume the...
What If Presence Is the Secret Ingredient of Good Sex?

What If Presence Is the Secret Ingredient of Good Sex?

by Stacey Herrera | Jun 17, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 78 | June 17, 2026 What If Presence Is the Secret Ingredient of Good Sex? It’s easier to believe the thrill vanished into thin air than to admit you left the room. Staying in the room when you’ve been with someone for years is a tall order, especially...
Want Good Sex? Then Use Your F***ing Words

Want Good Sex? Then Use Your F***ing Words

by Stacey Herrera | Jun 10, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 77 | June 10, 2026 Want Good Sex? Then Use Your F***ing Words When they ask, “Are you tired?” You know what comes next. After you’ve been together for a long while, it’s easy to predict the predictable. Which is the opposite of sexy. In this episode,...
What If Blue Light Is Changing the Way You Touch the One You Love?

What If Blue Light Is Changing the Way You Touch the One You Love?

by Stacey Herrera | Jun 3, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 76 | June 3, 2026 What If Blue Light Is Changing the Way You Touch the One You Love? There used to be these gaps of nothing. Waiting for a table. Standing in line. The 20 minutes or so before the thing started. And in those gaps, almost without thinking, we reached...
How Can You Be Irritated and Aroused at the Same Damn Time?

How Can You Be Irritated and Aroused at the Same Damn Time?

by Stacey Herrera | May 27, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 75  | May 27, 2026 How Can You Be Irritated and Aroused at the Same Damn Time? There are things that our partner says or does that grate on our very last nerve. But sometimes, as annoyed as we may be, we find desire bubbling to the surface. In this episode, Stacey...
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