I’m Stacey

  • Pronouns: She/Her
  • Love Style: Polyamorous
  • Relationship Status: Partnered & Open

On paper, I am an Intimacy & REALationship Coach, but in real life, I am so much more than that — sister-friend, healer, grief space-holder,  relationship-ing chaperone, break-up consultant,  truth-teller, and guide.

I came to do this work fair and square —by interrupting my inner resistance to being deeply loved.

And by learning how to create deliciously fulfilling relationships through the use of sensual exploration, intentional language, and a lustful approach to life.

Over the years, I have learned a few things about love, sex, and the pursuit of pleasure. Which has helped me to transform the interpersonal relationships of dozens of folx.

Stuff You Might Want to Know About Me…

  1. Jalapeños are my favorite fruit.
  2. I am a magnet for emotionally unavailable people.
  3. In my opinion, bedrooms are for two things: sleeping & f*cking.
  4. I have a thing for white sheets —preferably bamboo (or cotton).
  5. I am in an intimate relationship with French Fries.
  6. I gave my daughter more than a few things to hash out in therapy.
  7. Orgasms are my go-to for stress relief and pleasure.
  8. Being vulnerable still scares me —but I do it anyway.
  9. I take my tea with cream, vanilla, and a heap smidge of sugar.
  10. I am in the middle of a sister sandwich.
  11. Bubble baths give me life.

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