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They’re a Good Person, so Why Aren’t You Emotionally Fulfilled?

They’re a Good Person, so Why Aren’t You Emotionally Fulfilled?

by Stacey Herrera | Jul 29, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 84  | July 29, 2026 They're a Good Person, so Why Aren't You Emotionally Fulfilled? Good people are not necessarily good at relationships.  In this episode, Stacey explores the social construct of being a “good person.” And how being polite, helpful, and uncruel...
Who’s Responsible for the Sex Part of Your Relationship? You? or Them?

Who’s Responsible for the Sex Part of Your Relationship? You? or Them?

by Stacey Herrera | Jul 22, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 83  | July 22, 2026 Who's Responsible for the Sex Part of Your Relationship? You? or Them? Being in a relationship often looks like divvying up the life stuff. Maybe they take on the in-the-house chores, and you take on the outside parts. But who’s responsible for...
How You See Your Body Impacts Your Sex Life (Whether You Know It or Not)

How You See Your Body Impacts Your Sex Life (Whether You Know It or Not)

by Stacey Herrera | Jul 15, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 82 | July 15, 2026 How You See Your Body Impacts Your Sex Life (Whether You Know It or Not) The relationship you have with your body shapes what you’re willing to feel, receive, and experience sexually. This episode explores aging, self-perception, and the...
How Their Touch Makes You Feel on the Inside Matters (A Lot)

How Their Touch Makes You Feel on the Inside Matters (A Lot)

by Stacey Herrera | Jul 8, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 81 | July 8, 2026 How Their Touch Makes You Feel on the Inside Matters (A Lot) Touch speaks its own language. A hand on your belly. Fingers along your jaw. A palm at the center of your back. And the body feels every word. In this episode, Stacey sits with what...
Predictability Might Be Killing Your Sex Life (But You Don’t Know It)

Predictability Might Be Killing Your Sex Life (But You Don’t Know It)

by Stacey Herrera | Jul 1, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 80 | July 1, 2026 Predictability Might Be Killing Your Sex Life (But You Don't Know It) Bedrooms don’t magically transform into dens of desire after dark. Especially after a full day juggling life sh*t. That’s not how desire works—at any age, but especially in...
Uninhibited Sex After 40: Why Can’t You Let Go with the Person You Love?

Uninhibited Sex After 40: Why Can’t You Let Go with the Person You Love?

by Stacey Herrera | Jun 24, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 79  | June 24, 2026 Uninhibited Sex After 40: Why Can’t You Let Go with the Person You Love? The desire to let go and be uninhibited during sex is pretty common. Yet most of us struggle with it, especially in marriage and LTRs. After 40, we assume the...
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