EP 85 | August 5, 2026
Why Sex Work Feels a Lot like a Social Service
Our views on sex work often reflect the things we try to tuck away. Loneliness. Shame. Desire.
In this episode, we’re exploring how adult sex work might be a vital social service, providing a judgment-free space for acceptance, unmet needs, and sometimes deep intimacy.
The podcast churns the motor. The stack keeps it running.
On Substack, I dive into the juicy stuff that needs more than 15 minutes. The kinda things that make you go “humph, I never thought about it like that.”
Like why great sex requires emotional labor nobody talks about.
Or why men with smaller dicks are often better lovers (spoiler: it’s about skill, not size).
Or how asking, telling, and listening might be the only sex enhancement you actually need.
No hot takes or how-to guides. Instead, I’m laying down essays that sit at the intersection of nuance and oh damn!
If you’re tired of that Cosmo essential tips and tricks shit and you want the good stuff in the second half… join us.
People who talk about sex have better sex. Go figure?!
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