EP 84 | July 29, 2026
They're a Good Person, so Why Aren't You Emotionally Fulfilled?
Good people are not necessarily good at relationships.
In this episode, Stacey explores the social construct of being a “good person.” And how being polite, helpful, and uncruel can bypass the emotional nuance needed for deep relationship nurturing.
Resources mentioned:
- Elizabeth Earnshaw – Therapist: “You can love someone unconditionally and yet find that they can’t meet the conditions for maintaining a relationship.”
- All About Love by bell hooks
The podcast churns the motor. The stack keeps it running.
On Substack, I dive into the juicy stuff that needs more than 15 minutes. The kinda things that make you go “humph, I never thought about it like that.”
Like why great sex requires emotional labor nobody talks about.
Or why men with smaller dicks are often better lovers (spoiler: it’s about skill, not size).
Or how asking, telling, and listening might be the only sex enhancement you actually need.
No hot takes or how-to guides. Instead, I’m laying down essays that sit at the intersection of nuance and oh damn!
If you’re tired of that Cosmo essential tips and tricks shit and you want the good stuff in the second half… join us.
People who talk about sex have better sex. Go figure?!
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