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How Sex Becomes a Source of Conflict in Longterm Relationships

How Sex Becomes a Source of Conflict in Longterm Relationships

by Stacey Herrera | Feb 11, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 60 | February 11, 2026 How Sex Becomes a Source of Conflict in Longterm Relationships Why does sex become such a charged topic in long-term relationships?  Most of the time, you’re not really fighting about frequency, desire, or who initiates. You’re...
When Longterm Love Loses Its Edge in Midlife Relationships

When Longterm Love Loses Its Edge in Midlife Relationships

by Stacey Herrera | Feb 4, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 59  | February 4, 2026 When Longterm Love Loses Its Edge in Midlife Relationships This week’s episode is for people in long-term relationships who feel like they’ve lost that loving feeling. Whether you’re married, partnered, cohabitating, living...
How to Hold Space When Your Partner Is Too Tired for Sex

How to Hold Space When Your Partner Is Too Tired for Sex

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 28, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 58 | January 28, 2026 How to Hold Space When Your Partner Is Too Tired for Sex This week, we’re talking about being better partners when your person doesn’t have the bandwidth for sex. What it looks like to hold space without expectations. What...
Is Monotony Killing the Buzz in Your Sex Life?

Is Monotony Killing the Buzz in Your Sex Life?

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 21, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 57  | January 21, 2026 Is Monotony Killing the Buzz in Your Sex Life? Autopilot is not a good thing in relationships. But that doesn’t mean that monotony is the enemy. When you’re on the routine hamster wheel of same place, same thing, it’s hard to tell if you’re...
Is Your Sex Life Doomed When You’re Recovering from Sickness or Surgery?

Is Your Sex Life Doomed When You’re Recovering from Sickness or Surgery?

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 14, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 56 | January 14, 2026 Is Your Sex Life Doomed When You're Recovering from Sickness or Surgery? We plan for everything around surgery except sex. Time off work. Stocking the fridge. Help with the kids. Recovery logistics. We handle all of it. But what happens to...
Will Setting Sexual Intentions Improve Your Sex Life? Maybe So…

Will Setting Sexual Intentions Improve Your Sex Life? Maybe So…

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 7, 2026 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 55 | January 7, 2026 Will Setting Sexual Intentions Improve Your Sex Life? Maybe So… Why isn’t setting sexual intentions a thing? You set goals for your career, health, finances, relationships. But your sex life? That’s supposed to just… happen...
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