I am a romantic at heart. I love... love. I love the way things smell. I love how food tastes, how colors pop, and the way the air feels... when I am loving. I am reeeeeally good at loving. But I am still learning how to be loved. When people love me I shrink. My...
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Cliff Notes: Chakras are the key to your pleasure
Photo by Akhil Chandran on Unsplash Pleasure is the feeling of enjoyment and satisfaction. Pleasure is the most sought after feeling on the planet. Every species of animal wants to experience it. It is completely subjective, no two people experience it the same way....
Cartoons, Sealed Tombs, and 6-word Stories
I have curated a delicious list for you this week… any by delicious I do not mean all pleasant. The reason I have decided to include some not-so-favorite things on this weekly list is because life is not all sweet. But the contrast adds to the sweetness of the other...
Masturbation, the Power of Intuition, & Kissing Fools
I am already enjoying curating this weekly list! Knowing that I am going to write this post helps me to pay more attention to the things that I enjoy and the things that are meh. Awareness abounds! So here’s what I’ve got for you in this week’s Directory of...
Tomato Soup + Parm, a backpack, the beach, and some sun
This afternoon I packed a light lunch (tomato soup w/parm & naan) and strolled down to my local park, which happens to be right next to the pacific. It’s a warm, sunny day, and the sky is clear and seemingly blue. I am wearing my big floppy pink...
Beyond the Bullshit Episode 28 featuring moi
Alexis of The Messy Masterpiece is the gracious host of Beyond the Bullshit a weekly LIVE FB show. And you know who is the guest on Episode 28! 20 questions in 20 minutes. It's all about being raw and real. I loved everything about this experience! We talked about...
Dating is not dead, you just have to know how to do it
The Sensuality Project (TSP) ~ Dating HD is a practical 6-week experience, designed to get you “in shape” to meet potential mate(s). It’s an emotional training experience for love. This program is closed...
This is for the woman who is on the fence about walking away
This is for the woman who is on the fence about walking away. Whether you are contemplating leaving your partner, your job, or getting rid of that dress you used to love… it’s all the same. I know you have been weighing the pros and cons of letting go. Trying...
Are you withholding sex from you?
I was in a longterm relationship that had grown stale. It was not that we stopped loving one another, but we had lost our way. Our conversations were terse, the intimacy was nonexistent, and our sex life was on the shelf (complete with cobwebs and a whole lotta...
The root of the matter
The first time I became consciously aware that my root was imbalanced, it showed up as high blood pressure. I was having crazy headaches, everyday. I was stressed at work, and if I’m honest, I was just sick and tired of being sick and tired. My doctor was quick to...
Dear Used-to-be Lover
Dear Used-to-be Lover, I can still feel your breath on my skin. But I am trying really hard to forget you. I remember the way you smiled the last time we kissed. The way you smoothed your hand around my waist, pulling me closer to you. You always knew how to cut...
43 relationship factoids + suggestions
43 relationship factoids + suggestions (in no particular order): If you struggle to “get” a man/woman or “keep” a man/woman… your mindset needs an adjustment. Never compare your last relationship to your current one. If you believe that all men are dogs… you’ll...
Intimacy is the sweet spot
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