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The Rejection Story That’s Keeping You From Good Sex

The Rejection Story That’s Keeping You From Good Sex

by Stacey Herrera | Oct 29, 2025 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 48  | October 29, 2025 The Rejection Story That's Keeping You From Good Sex In this episode, Stacey explores the rejection stories we tell ourselves and how they affect our sex lives.  She shares a story about a boundary violation that turned cruel and breaks down...
Do You Tell Your Kids About the Marital Affair? If yes, How?

Do You Tell Your Kids About the Marital Affair? If yes, How?

by Stacey Herrera | Oct 22, 2025 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 47  | October 22, 2025 Do You Tell Your Kids About the Marital Affair? If yes, How? You want to protect your kids from the pain. But you also don’t want to lie to them. So do you tell them about the affair? Whether you stayed together or split, whether your...
Is Performing Pleasure Affecting Your Sex Life?

Is Performing Pleasure Affecting Your Sex Life?

by Stacey Herrera | Oct 15, 2025 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 46  | October 15, 2025 Is Performing Pleasure Affecting Your Sex Life? Last week, we discussed the penis owners’ scorecard. This week, we’re talking about vulva owners who perform pleasure. Moans that are a little too extra. Making that “feel good” face to...
Is Their Sexual Satisfaction Really That Important to You?

Is Their Sexual Satisfaction Really That Important to You?

by Stacey Herrera | Oct 8, 2025 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 45  | October 8, 2025 Is Their Sexual Satisfaction Really That Important to You? If we had a nickel for every time someone with a penis said, “My partner’s pleasure is the most important thing to me,” we’d all be rich. Sounds noble. But most...
Do Selfless Women and Capable Men Make the Best Lovers?

Do Selfless Women and Capable Men Make the Best Lovers?

by Stacey Herrera | Oct 1, 2025 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 44  | October 1, 2025 Do Selfless Women and Capable Men Make the Best Lovers? She’s the one who remembers birthdays and keeps the group text alive. He’s the guy who handles the money and fixes what’s broken.  They look like opposite types, but...
Does Main Character Energy Make You Selfish?

Does Main Character Energy Make You Selfish?

by Stacey Herrera | Sep 24, 2025 | Sex IRL Podcast

EP 43  | September 24, 2025 Does Main Character Energy Make You Selfish? A lot shifts after 40. Your tolerance for pretending disappears. That bottomless energy you used to have? Poof… gone. Suddenly, you’re saying no to things that used to be an automatic yes...
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