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3 Tips To Increase Compatibility Regardless Of Their Attachment Style

3 Tips To Increase Compatibility Regardless Of Their Attachment Style

by Stacey Herrera | Oct 5, 2022 | Essays

When my partner and I first met, I struggled to put both feet in the relationship. He was kind and responsible, and he was impeccable with his word, but he had an avoidant attachment style. Aside from that, he was everything I had hoped for in a partner. But I...
5 Ways Pain Points Help Improve Relationship Health

5 Ways Pain Points Help Improve Relationship Health

by Stacey Herrera | Apr 25, 2022 | Essays

We all have those little (or sometimes big) things that bother us. Maybe it’s how your partner finishes your sentences incorrectly or how they always seem to forget your birthday. Whatever it is, these pain points can often be the source of much relationship...
Foreplay is Not a Prelude to Sex—It’s The Main Event

Foreplay is Not a Prelude to Sex—It’s The Main Event

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 28, 2021 | Essays

He was the strong silent type who used his words wisely. He was concise and direct, using body language to say things that words failed to convey. There were times when I could feel him undress me without ever breaking eye contact. He hugged as if his life depended on...
The Surprisingly Perfect Time to Start a Relationship

The Surprisingly Perfect Time to Start a Relationship

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 7, 2021 | Essays

My partner was fresh out of a long-term relationship when things got super serious between us. I was admittedly apprehensive at first — and so was he. Neither of us was ready to start a relationship. We weren’t unsure about how we felt about one another, but we each...
3 Reasons Why You Think Most Relationships Are Unhealthy

3 Reasons Why You Think Most Relationships Are Unhealthy

by Stacey Herrera | Sep 9, 2020 | Essays

Lately, I have had more than a few conversations with people who are convinced that relationships are unhealthy. I’m talking about folks who don’t seem to like their significant other. Don’t get me wrong, these are people who love the ones they’re with, but they...
If You Want to Build a Good Relationship Ask These 3 Simple Questions

If You Want to Build a Good Relationship Ask These 3 Simple Questions

by Stacey Herrera | Aug 7, 2020 | Essays

If the pandemic has taught us anything, it’s that relationships matter. Now more than ever, more people are on a mission to build a good relationship with the one they love. We have become more intimate with the concept of interconnectedness. Where you may have...
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