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Pussy pH, funky spunk, & defining “woke” w/Winter White

Pussy pH, funky spunk, & defining “woke” w/Winter White

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 3, 2018 | Podcast Archives

Relationships… it all comes back to that, right? How we relate to everything and everyone in our environment informs the quality of our lives. Yet, we spend so little time investing, really investing, in the relationships that mean the most to us. Life is bigger...
The other rape, denying white privilege, & the teachings of Judy Blume w/Leigh Montavon

The other rape, denying white privilege, & the teachings of Judy Blume w/Leigh Montavon

by Stacey Herrera | Dec 15, 2017 | Podcast Archives

Sexual assault/misconduct/harassment has been a hot topic this year, along with a slew of other button pushers. Not because these things are new, but because the chickens have finally come home to roost. Voices have been activated and are being broadcast on every...
Curiosity + Boundaries + Intimacy = Full Expression

Curiosity + Boundaries + Intimacy = Full Expression

by Stacey Herrera | Nov 23, 2017 | Podcast Archives

I have made 44 trips around the sun, and I was unknown to myself for most of the journey. But making the choice to be present for everything changed everything. And I don’t know if I have ever felt more of myself than I do right now. Everything about the woman I...
Wage slavery, delivering whoop-ass, & ticking the monogamy box w/Melissa Danielle (pt 2)

Wage slavery, delivering whoop-ass, & ticking the monogamy box w/Melissa Danielle (pt 2)

by Stacey Herrera | Nov 15, 2017 | Podcast Archives

Life always serves opportunities for expansion. Whether it be in love or business, at work or at home, the peeling back layers of yourself never ceases. But when you open yourself to the possibilities evolution is inevitable. And truth be told, you will evolve whether...
Defining monogamy, sex work, & women need consent too w/Melissa Danielle (part 1)

Defining monogamy, sex work, & women need consent too w/Melissa Danielle (part 1)

by Stacey Herrera | Nov 8, 2017 | Podcast Archives

Relationships are the cornerstone of the human experience. How we relate to one another and how we relate to ourselves creates the texture of our lives. Yet, we rarely invest the kind of time and attention that healthy relationships require. From neglecting our...
Naked yoga, herpes, and authentic yoni love w/Giavanni Scott

Naked yoga, herpes, and authentic yoni love w/Giavanni Scott

by Stacey Herrera | Nov 1, 2017 | Podcast Archives

The womb is a gateway, a portal from which souls reincarnate into flesh once more. A sacred passageway to and from the ether. The womb is a reflection of the Universe. A physical manifestation of the creative thread that unites every thing.  My guest this week is...
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You say you want a healthy relationship, but are y You say you want a healthy relationship, but are you moving like you believe you can have it?

Most of us aren’t afraid of being alone. We’re afraid of what we think we’ll have to give up if we’re not.

Wanting more is easy. Moving like more is possible is something different.

This post isn’t about shame.
It’s about the difference between longing and readiness.

If it hit drop a ✋🏾in the comments.

#midlifewomen #fortyplus #relationships #healing #selfawareness #behonest
You’ve gotten so good at talking yourself out of You’ve gotten so good at talking yourself out of what you want, you don’t even call it desire anymore.

You’ve spent years shrinking yourself and your desires.
In the name of keeping it real.
But wanting was never the problem.
You just didn’t trust that you could have it.

Drop a 🙌🏾 if you’re done shrinking your desires.

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#midlifewoman #relationships #over40 #bebold #unlearn #selflove
Numb is not peace. Busy is not healed. Fine is a h Numb is not peace. Busy is not healed. Fine is a holding pattern.

Here’s what’s actually going on when you say, “I don’t want to feel bad.”

It’s not that you fear pain. You fear relief.

Because joy requires vulnerability. And if you’ve been in survival mode for a minute, vulnerability feels like a threat.

That’s one of the sneakiest ways we stay stuck. Idling in neutral, telling ourselves we’re okay… when we’re really avoiding the risk of feeling better.

#midlifewomen #higherself #personaldevelopment #higherselfgreatestlove #over50
Wisdom lies beneath the surface of what we call “low libido.

Most women think something’s off when they stop wanting sex.
But what if that quiet stretch is just your body doing what it knows how to do?

A lot changes in midlife.
Including desire.

This week on Love Is…, I’m sharing what I wish more women knew about low desire, long relationships, and our seasonal nature.

🎧 Listen now: https://staceyherrera.com/ep-34

🫶🏾 Share with your midlife bestie

#Midlife #midlifewoman #intimacy #connection #midliferelationships #sensuality #selfawareness
You’re in a season most women never talk about. You’re in a season most women never talk about.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your s*xuality lately…
Not broken. Just blank.
This one’s for you.

Midlife women are navigating so much, and low desire is more common than we’re ever told. But it’s not the end of anything. It’s a shift. A season. One you’re allowed to honor.

This week, we’re naming the thing. No shame. No panic. Just honesty.
Let’s talk about sexual winter.

🫶🏾 Tag someone who needs a little less pressure and a little more grace.

Episode live… Listen now.
🎧 https://staceyherrera.com/ep-34
or
✍🏾 Comment 34 and we’ll send the link your way via DM.

#midlifewoman #midlife #growth #sensuality #bodylove
It’s not about finding them. It’s about findin It’s not about finding them. It’s about finding you.

Me, Again isn’t a dating detox. It’s a return to your center—so you stop losing yourself in love.

This intimate coaching experience is for the woman who’s ready to choose herself… for real this time.

Limited spots. Apply here → https://staceyherrera.com/apply

#midlifewoman #midlifedating #loveover50 #fortyplus #selfdiscovery #personaldevelopment
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