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How Finding Love Taught Me to Embrace Sexuality in Its Many Forms

How Finding Love Taught Me to Embrace Sexuality in Its Many Forms

by Stacey Herrera | Mar 5, 2018 | Essays

This post is part of The Beauty of a Woman BlogFest VII! To read more entries and potentially win a fun prize, visit the fest page on August McLaughlin’s site between today and 11 pm PST on March 9th.   What makes sexuality beautiful? I consider myself pretty...
Pussy weights, sex chats, & the chihuahua effect w/Jen Pavich

Pussy weights, sex chats, & the chihuahua effect w/Jen Pavich

by Stacey Herrera | Feb 28, 2018 | Podcast Archives

Womanhood is a continuous rite of passage. We are in a constant state of becoming. Evolving and growing. Shrinking and expanding. We are our mothers as much as we are ourselves.  And we are now being inaugurated into the new old world. A world where autonomy is...
Allowing pleasure, seeing diversity, & looking at vulvas w/Myola Woods

Allowing pleasure, seeing diversity, & looking at vulvas w/Myola Woods

by Stacey Herrera | Feb 7, 2018 | Podcast Archives

We are living in a time where diversity is rising to the surface. We are being called to embrace our sameness as well as our differences. That means looking at every facet of our humanity and accepting what is currently real and true. We are all at different points on...
Evolution, needing vs. needy, & what’s next

Evolution, needing vs. needy, & what’s next

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 31, 2018 | Podcast Archives

2018 is in full effect and the energy is very different than the previous year. I am feeling divinely led to take my time and cultivate an environment that feels nourishing and sustainable. While simultaneously allowing myself to explore new things, entertain big...
Swallowing semen, the truth about being unattractive, + Cardi B w/ Stephanie Williams

Swallowing semen, the truth about being unattractive, + Cardi B w/ Stephanie Williams

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 17, 2018 | Podcast Archives

  Women’s empowerment is at the forefront of every conversation these days. Voices are speaking up, what has gone on in the dark is being dragged into the light, and “Times Up” has become a battle-cry. Gone are the days of turning the...
Reclaiming Cunt, breaking through, & relationship-ing w/Sophia Wise One

Reclaiming Cunt, breaking through, & relationship-ing w/Sophia Wise One

by Stacey Herrera | Jan 10, 2018 | Podcast Archives

Womanhood is a multidimensional experience. We birth nations and carry the weight of the world on our backs. The pain of our foremothers is twined in the helix, transmitted generation after generation. Trauma has been sewn in the lining of our womb… and still,...
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You say you want a healthy relationship, but are y You say you want a healthy relationship, but are you moving like you believe you can have it? Most of us aren’t afraid of being alone. We’re afraid of what we think we’ll have to give up if we’re not. Wanting more is easy. Moving like more is possible is something different. This post isn’t about shame. It’s about the difference between longing and readiness. If it hit drop a ✋🏾in the comments. #midlifewomen #fortyplus #relationships #healing #selfawareness #behonest
You’ve gotten so good at talking yourself out of You’ve gotten so good at talking yourself out of what you want, you don’t even call it desire anymore. You’ve spent years shrinking yourself and your desires. In the name of keeping it real. But wanting was never the problem. You just didn’t trust that you could have it. Drop a 🙌🏾 if you’re done shrinking your desires. https://staceyherrera.substack.com/ #midlifewoman #relationships #over40 #bebold #unlearn #selflove
Numb is not peace. Busy is not healed. Fine is a h Numb is not peace. Busy is not healed. Fine is a holding pattern. Here’s what’s actually going on when you say, “I don’t want to feel bad.” It’s not that you fear pain. You fear relief. Because joy requires vulnerability. And if you’ve been in survival mode for a minute, vulnerability feels like a threat. That’s one of the sneakiest ways we stay stuck. Idling in neutral, telling ourselves we’re okay… when we’re really avoiding the risk of feeling better. #midlifewomen #higherself #personaldevelopment #higherselfgreatestlove #over50
Wisdom lies beneath the surface of what we call “low libido. Most women think something’s off when they stop wanting sex. But what if that quiet stretch is just your body doing what it knows how to do? A lot changes in midlife. Including desire. This week on Love Is…, I’m sharing what I wish more women knew about low desire, long relationships, and our seasonal nature. 🎧 Listen now: https://staceyherrera.com/ep-34 🫶🏾 Share with your midlife bestie #Midlife #midlifewoman #intimacy #connection #midliferelationships #sensuality #selfawareness
You’re in a season most women never talk about. You’re in a season most women never talk about. If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your s*xuality lately… Not broken. Just blank. This one’s for you. Midlife women are navigating so much, and low desire is more common than we’re ever told. But it’s not the end of anything. It’s a shift. A season. One you’re allowed to honor. This week, we’re naming the thing. No shame. No panic. Just honesty. Let’s talk about sexual winter. 🫶🏾 Tag someone who needs a little less pressure and a little more grace. Episode live… Listen now. 🎧 https://staceyherrera.com/ep-34 or ✍🏾 Comment 34 and we’ll send the link your way via DM. #midlifewoman #midlife #growth #sensuality #bodylove
It’s not about finding them. It’s about findin It’s not about finding them. It’s about finding you. Me, Again isn’t a dating detox. It’s a return to your center—so you stop losing yourself in love. This intimate coaching experience is for the woman who’s ready to choose herself… for real this time. Limited spots. Apply here → https://staceyherrera.com/apply #midlifewoman #midlifedating #loveover50 #fortyplus #selfdiscovery #personaldevelopment
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