Not-enoughness, the closure myth, penetration, and the importance of self-acceptance w/Biba Atta

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You ever meet someone and immediately click? Well that was exactly how I felt the first time that I met Biba Atta. She is one of the realest women I have ever met. I love how she shows up in every area of her life. And when she sets an intention she follows through. Can you say inspired? 

Meeting likeminded women is beautiful. But meeting a likeminded woman that you can’t imagine not having in your life, well that’s expansive. That is what it’s like to be friends with Biba. I mean, we get each other’s jokes, like for reals. We go together like peanut butter and homemade jelly!   Which is why I invited Biba to join me for a conversation on the inaugural episode of The Sensuality Project podcast!

In this episode we explore:

Why having important conversations via email/text and why it’s not always a good idea.

Stress & resentment and the impact it can have on the male libido.

The closure myth and how you can tie off a loose end.

How self-acceptance, or lack thereof, can make sex better or worse. 



Biba Atta

“When I didn’t have self-awareness and self-acceptance I found that I absolutely did not enjoy sex.” – Biba Atta


About Biba Atta: 

Biba is a life and business strategist, Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) coach, and speaker.  She guides people through the process of gaining clarity around their dreams, asking for what they want, healing beliefs that are keeping them blocked, and preparing them to receive what they desire. 

You can connect with Biba on InstagramFacebook, and her website

The following is mentioned in this episode:

– Esther Perel – Relationship Expert

– With You – Marsha Ambrosius YouTube | Spotify 

– Beauty in the Dark – MosDef YouTube | Spotify

– How’s that – FKA Twigs YouTube | Spotify

– Calls – Robert Glasper ft. Jill Scott – YouTube | Spotify

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