Essays

Intimacy + REALationships

Love

Relating

Sex

Join My Email Community

And get my 7 Secrets to Building More Intimacy in Romantic & Platonic Relationships

How do we cure skin hunger in men?

How do we cure skin hunger in men?

Photo: Photo by Thomas Bonometti on Unsplash The other day while belting tunes in an unfamiliar karaoke bar I witnessed something really beautiful… straight men. Not that straight men are an unusual sight, but what was unusual about this sighting was that they were...

Oh Joy Sex Toy, Summertime, and Throwbacks

Oh Joy Sex Toy, Summertime, and Throwbacks

 Sensuality is tactile. It’s four dimensional. Living a sensual life is multi-layered. It’s really about taking in everything through every possible portal. Our lives are composed of the things we see, taste, touch, smell, feel, and intuit. I believe that...

What I learned about support from my tip-toes

What I learned about support from my tip-toes

For as long as I can remember, I have always tiptoed into the swimming pool. First I stand on the edge daring myself to dive in. Then I stick one toe in to test the temperature. By the time I have finally willed myself to take the plunge I refuse to jump, instead I...

Is Being Independent in a Relationship a Good Thing?

Is Being Independent in a Relationship a Good Thing?

The thought of being independent in a relationship is something that comes up for my single and partnered clients. The thought of forgoing their independence, giving up their autonomy, and losing their identity causes a lot of anxiety. Some have been conditioned to...

Relationship Quiz!

Is Your Relationship a Disaster Waiting to Happen?

Are you ready to learn more about how you and your partner work together? Want to understand how you talk to each other? And what you can do to make your relationship even stronger?

Find out what’s working and what’s not.

Work With Me