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A Comprehensive Guide to Confessions in Relationships – How & When to Reveal Your Truth
Navigating confessions in relationships is complex and difficult, even for me. I have secrets a plenty. Things I’ve done, wrongs I’ve committed. Some of those things used to keep me up at night, a relentless inner monologue of shame and guilt. There have been times...
The Real Definition of Good Sex Doesn’t Involve Orgasms
What is good sex?... I spend a good a lot of time pondering the complexities of human sexuality. There are a gazillion perspectives, tons of scientific research, and enough Cosmo articles to paper the globe twice, but at the end of the day, it's all about...
Why Do Loving Partners Suddenly Become Emotionally Unavailable?
The Cranberries once wrote a song about trying to hold on while the one you love is falling out of love with you. The lyrics go, "I'm sure I might be rude. But it's just your attitude. It's tearing me apart. It's ruining everything." We've all been there. One day, our...
3 Tips To Increase Compatibility Regardless Of Their Attachment Style
When my partner and I first met, I struggled to put both feet in the relationship. He was kind and responsible, and he was impeccable with his word, but he had an avoidant attachment style. Aside from that, he was everything I had hoped for in a partner. But I...
5 Ways Pain Points Help Improve Relationship Health
We all have those little (or sometimes big) things that bother us. Maybe it's how your partner finishes your sentences incorrectly or how they always seem to forget your birthday. Whatever it is, these pain points can often be the source of much relationship tension....
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