Sensuality is a spiritual practice

“Sensuality isn’t worth a hair more than spirituality, and it’s the same the other way around. It’s all one, everything is equally good. Whether you embrace a woman or make a poem, it’s the same. So long as the main thing is there, the love,...

S.E.W. – Sexually Empowered Woman

I am sick and tired of the shaming of the S.E.W. (sexually empowered woman). You know the woman who knows that she is fucking sexy and is unapologetic about it. The ones who can rock a pair of stilettos or flip-flops, and still ooze the same amount of sensual mojo....

The crushes of youth

My very first crush was a boy who looked a lot like Ricky Schroeder, with no silver spoon. He had a blond bowl cut and he loved basketball. I have no idea what his name was. I didn’t know any of his friends. I didn’t know what classes he took or whether he was smart...

This body is where I live

There was a time when I did not honor my body. I did know how to be in this body. I did not know how to live in this body. I did not know how to listen to this body. And I most certainly did not know how to respect this body. I consumed things without consideration...

The ordinary, everyday woman

The world will gaze at physical beauty and fashionability. It will praise accolades and achievements. It will showcase talent and broadcast drama. It will make room for conformity and allow subtle resistance to seep into the cracks. It loves the bold and exalts...

Romance is great for business

When I’m feeling amorous one of two things happens… I’m highly productive because romantic feelings ignite my creative juju. I’m not productive at all because romantic feelings cause me to daydream like a lunatic. Both are beneficial in their own ways. When...