Radical Selfish T.L.C.

“To thine own self be true” – William Shakespeare February is the month when Cupid gets to spread love far and near. Roses are plucked and arranged by the truckload. Chocolate gets melted, molded, and devoured. Men everywhere are given a golden...

Relationship: Party of Three?

Traditionally speaking, most romantic relationships are between two people. Or are they?  I believe that there is always a third party involved. Party number three is usually uninvited, but it doesn’t have to be that way. You can choose your own third wheel, or...

The beauty of imperfection

“You’re imperfect and you are hardwired for struggle, but you are worthy of love.” – Brene Brown This is one of my favorite quotes, not because it’s so profound, but because it’s so true.  Even still it took me a long time to really...

Setting the Intention

One of my girlfriends has been encountering some resistance from one of her co-workers lately.  They were joking and she made what she thought was an innocent comment and he went ballistic on her. The comment wasn’t personal and it didn’t relate to him...

Accidentally on Purpose

Sometimes life can appear so random. Some of the most profound moments of my life appeared to come out of nowhere, completely by happenstance, or so it seemed. Do you think that life happens by accident or on purpose? I believe that life happens exactly in order. I...

A few things about procrastination

pro•cras•ti•nate – verb [intrans]: delay or postpone action; put off doing something. I have a tendency toward procrastination. It is not unusual for me to postpone things that need to be done for days on end. Does this ever happen to you? I am certain that I am...