Lesson #9: It’s not him… it’s you.

“The one you love and the one who loves you are never, ever the same person.”                                                                                      ― Chuck Palahniuk, Invisible Monsters Sometimes the person you love doesn’t love you. Or maybe they do...

Lesson #8 Reading is fundamental

“Never trust anyone who has not brought a book with them.” — Lemony Snicket  (aka Daniel Handler) I have been a reader my entire life. And I’ve learned that there is something of value to be found in every book. From children’s books to adult fiction,...

The real you… it’s in there.

You were born into relationships – your mother, father, sister, brother, and a myriad of extended family members… that you probably don’t remember choosing.   Before the age of 7, you were assigned an identity. This identity is a collection of thoughts,...

Say no to pleasing – Yes to boundaries

I’ve come to learn in my forty years of “infinite” wisdom that personal boundaries are vital. If you think you can get away without setting them or abiding by them for that matter, you’re dead wrong.  Although I have to admit, I am not in love with rules. In fact, I...