ar·tic·u·late
The way you communicate today is shaping the future of your relationship.
For better or worse…

“We just can’t communicate.”
Is the most common breakup line.
But it doesn’t have to be yours.
Communication isn’t just about exchanging words—it’s the invisible thread that weaves two separate lives into a shared experience.
When that thread frays, everything else follows. The fights that never get resolved, the needs that go unexpressed, the distance that grows wider with each passing day—these aren’t communication problems, they’re connection problems in disguise.
If you’ve ever thought, I wish I’d said that differently,
this course is for you.
ar·tic·u·late transforms your relationship language at its roots.

This course will help you:
- Replace surface conversations with connections that resonate in your bones.
- Decode your reaction patterns, turning triggers into gateways for understanding.
- Cultivate relationships resilient enough to bend without breaking.
- Speak your truth in ways that invite others closer rather than pushing them away.
ar·tic·u·late defined:
The rare ability to translate your heart’s language into words others can truly hear. Where authenticity meets clarity. Where what you mean matches what you say.
ar·tic·u·late delivered:
A 5-week immersion that rewires your communication patterns across every relationship in your life—from intimate partnerships to family dynamics to everyday interactions.
This is an invitation to a completely different relationship experience. Express what matters. Choose language that builds bridges. Listen in ways that make others feel seen. Create the kind of closeness you’ve always craved but couldn’t quite reach.

Relationships are ecosystems, and one part impacts the whole. So if you change, everything in the ecosystem changes with you.
ar·tic·u·late will help you shift your relationship to communication itself. The words you choose. The questions you ask. The silences you honor. Each subtle shift creates space for connection that wasn’t possible before.
You already have the tools…
“To the man with a hammer, everything looks like a nail…”
Your voice. Your words. Your ability to listen. You were born with everything needed for connection—yet somehow, the people closest to you still don’t feel truly heard.
Untrained communication is like handling precision instruments with boxing gloves. The damage isn’t intentional, but it’s real—and it compounds over time.
ar·tic·u·late transforms those raw capabilities into finely-tuned instruments of connection. Not by giving you more, but by showing you how to use what you already have.

What’s included inside:
Lesson 1: What + Why = How
What you’ll learn:
- Your communication style
- Ranking your basic needs
- Default conflict techniques
- Exercise: What + Why Discovery
Lesson 2: Internal Communication
What you’ll learn:
- A note on this course and THE WORK
- A soapbox about handwriting
- The echo of your inner child
- Exercise 1: Connecting with your inner child
- The inner child’s fraternal twin – the inner critic
- Exercise 2: The inner critic inventory
- An introduction to Ho’oponopono
Lesson 3: Productive Chatter
What you’ll learn:
- Conversation vs. Communication
- The buzzkill of self-consciousness
- Listening generously
- Exercise 1: Generous listening experiment
Lesson 4: Complaining + Controversy
What you’ll learn:
- The art of bellyaching
- The necessity of a captive audience
- Practice: Low-stakes complaint
- Disagreement vs. Argument
- Anatomy of a healthy disagreement
Lesson 5: The Boomerang Effect
What you’ll learn:
- The Optimism/Pessimism Continuum
- Self-fulfilling prophecies
- Exercise 1: Core Values Integrity Report
- Future-trippin’ + Communicating with the Universe
- Exercise 2: Breaking up with doubt
Miscommunication Ends More Relationships than Falling out of Love Ever Could
This course transforms how you speak in moments that matter—turning conversations that once created distance into opportunities for genuine connection.


They don’t need your volume. They need your clarity.
Trust and communication are inseparable. ar·tic·u·late teaches you to express your truths clearly without creating collateral damage—replacing defensive patterns with the kind of openness that builds unshakable foundations.

Join ar·tic·u·late today!
Don’t wait any longer – you can enjoy the benefits of improved communication, deeper intimacy, and better relationships as soon as you double-click!
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I’m ready to make my relationships better by learning how to communicate.
ar·tic·u·late is perfect for you if you want to…
• Learn effective communication strategies that lead to better relationships
• Identify unhealthy habits and find solutions to common problems in communication
• Gain access to valuable resources and guidance from the comfort of your own home
• Enjoy improved communication, deeper intimacy, and stronger relationships with loved ones
Stacey Herrera
I write and speak about the brilliance of intimacy + REALationships.
A few career highlights: I used to be an insurance account manager, and I have a degree in English. When I was little, I wanted to be an attorney, like my aunt. But mostly, I wanted to read and write books for a living. And by some stroke of divinity, I have managed to do just that. Of course, I read much more than I write — and that’s a good thing.
I’m the creator of The Sensuality Project, a relationship-ing practitioner, jalapeño addict, and chronic library fine payer. I’m also the author of three tiny books: How to Give Amazing Head, Aftercare — 21 Things to do After Sex, and How Do I Tell Them I Have Herpes.
I spend my days helping people get along with the people they like. Being of service in this way is one of the greatest gifts of my life… along with living on the coast of California, getting lost in books, and relationship-ing with family, lovers, and friends.
Got Q’s?
When does the course begin?
ar·tic·u·late begins as soon as you sign up.
How long do I have access to the course?
You will have access to the course documents and recordings for as long as the course exists. You also have the option of downloading the documents and recordings as you go along… so you can keep them forever.
Is this course self-paced or live?
ar·tic·u·late is self-paced, meaning you can take the course at your own pace and access the content at any time.
What is your refund policy?
ar·tic·u·late comes with a satisfaction guarantee.
You will see results, and your investment will yield dividends in the form of better relationships — but this is contingent upon you doing the work.
If you are not willing to commit and do the work — take my advice and DO NOT take this course.
However, if you take the course and are not satisfied, you can request a refund. Click here to read the fine print.
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