Intimacy and Relationship Coaching for Individuals & Couples

who crave deeper intimacy, stronger communication, and improved relationship satisfaction
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Are you ready to elevate your relationships and embrace deeper intimacy?

Imagine a world where you don’t settle.

Whether it’s rejuvenating your current partnership, finding joy in platonic intimacy, healing from past relational hurts, or discovering pleasure that transcends the bedroom —I can help.

Explore the potential of enriching every relationship in your life.

Let’s make your dream of feeling loved and deeply connected into reality.

Are you ready to experience the calm of healthy-for-you connections?

If you want to be a good partner

Take good care of yourself

Ask for what you want

explore your erotic potential

Practice giving and receiving

discover fulfillment

delve into pleasure

free yourself from shame

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Here’s how I can help

Intimacy has no bottom. There is no finish line. The level of intimacy between you and your beloved will evolve as you do.

The deeper you go, the better you get at expressing yourself. And the better you get at expressing yourself the more intimacy you’ll experience.

See how that works?

Sexual attraction is often a prelude to a kiss. In marketing terms, sexual chemistry is the hook. And in the beginning, that attraction comes with an urgent passion, like a fire that burns hot and hard. But fires need fuel, and that’s where intimacy comes in.

Intimacy is a crucial component in relationships of all kinds. Intimacy is a powerful adhesive, connecting one with another. And while there is a myriad of ways to develop familiarity and bond with other people. In romantic relationships, sex is one of the primary sources of intimacy.

When life gets busy, and stress begins to build, you may find yourself forgetting to be intimate with your partner. Sometimes you might forget that you are a sexual being living in a body that is wired to feel good. Because when the going gets tough, pleasure seems indulgent, and intimacy appears to be a luxury that time cannot afford.

But I can help you get your sexy back!

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Sex + Pleasure

There is no such thing as sexual dysfunction, only unexplored possibilities. Sex is a buffet, and I’m here to help you discover what you like, so you can have it your way.

Love + Attachment

There are many ways to relationship. I can help you get clear on the love style that is best for you. From monogamy to ethical non-monogamy, and everything in between.

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Beginnings & Endings

Relationship transitions are my jam. Whether you are entering a new connection or leaving an existing one, I’m here to help you get to the other side.

Relationship Rehab

Relationships are cyclical. And sometimes you need a little help making it through the cycle you’re in. Together we can reset, restore, and renew your relationship.

Boundaries

Boundaries – not barriers. Master the art of saying “no,” with style & grace, and free up time and space in every area of your life. It’s that powerful.

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Communication

I can teach you how to ask for what you want, and be receptive to your lover’s wants, needs, and desires at the same time. It’s totally doable.

Staying in Love Requires an Investment

It is challenging for most people to continue to have a high level of appreciation and admiration for one another when a relationship is long-term. Falling in love is really really, easy.  Staying in love not so much.

It can be difficult to maintain newness and freshness once you become too familiar with one another. Suddenly what was once fun and exciting becomes mundane.

But Established Relationship Energy (ERE) is a real thing. And when you make working in, and not on, your relationship a priority you can experience all the juicy lust that you get in new connections, with the predictable consistency that can only come from long-term relationships. Yes, you can have it all – again and again.

 

Have an Active Vision, Strategy, & Roadmap to Reach Your Relationship Goals

We focus on fostering communication in order for you to identify each other’s needs and understand how best to meet them. We will also explore common issues, such as trust and vulnerability, that can help you to create a more authentic connection with each other.

My intimacy and relationship coaching for couples can help you to navigate the choppy waters of codependency, untangle your woah-is-me story, and dip your toe into the pool of your almost-like-new normal. With a clear vision, solid strategy, and an interactive roadmap, I can help you reach your full relationship potential!

Relationship Coaching for Couples

Make Agreements & Honor Commitment & Have Great Sex!

Women grow up on the fairytale diet. Wanting the romance they read about, complete with Prince Charming and the happy ending.

While men grow up on the porn diet, wanting the sex that they’ve seen on the small screen, complete with a different kind of happy ending. There’s a disconnect between fantasy and reality on both sides.

But now you’re all grown up.  And I’m here to tell you that you can have healthy relationships and good sex. You can be emotionally and physically intimate. You can have fun and go deep. It’s no longer either/or… it’s YES/AND more, please.

Intimacy and relationship coaching for couples can help you have your cake and eat it too!

Are you tired of the same unhealthy patterns of communication, emotional disconnection, and physical distance in your partnership?

“Hybrid” Intimacy and Relationship Coaching is specifically tailored for single and married folks who long for deeper intimacy and relationship satisfaction.

Through a series of weekly one-on-one coaching sessions and Voxer Coaching between sessions, we will work together to create an environment that helps you discover healthy ways to communicate, build emotional connections, and foster more physical intimacy.

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Need support but lack the time?

“Coach in Your Pocket” might be for you!

 

Frequently Asked Questions

How does Zoom coaching work?

We will meet weekly on Zoom for about 90 minutes. During these sessions, we will discuss the challenges you’re facing in your relationship and develop tailored solutions to improve your connection.

In between sessions, you’ll have access to me on Voxer. This is a messaging platform that allows us to communicate quickly and easily. That way, if you’re ever in need of guidance or just want to check in, I’m just a quick message away.

By combining real-time support with personalized one-on-one coaching, you will get faster results and a deeper understanding of the issues in your relationship. Plus, you’ll have the added convenience and flexibility of reaching out whenever you need support.

Check out this FACT SHEET for additional details.

May I schedule calls on weekends?

While my schedule is not typically open on weekends, I am happy to make concessions on an as-needed basis.

What is your coaching “style”?

While there are several exercises that I take every client through, every coaching experience is as unique as you are. Our exploration will be tailored to you. My approach is conversational + supportive. Everything is welcome here. I offer simple and effective tools to help you reconnect with your body and keep you in the room.

Do I have to be in a relationship to work with you?

Absolutely not. Whether you’re single and looking for clarity on what you want in a relationship or partnered and seeking guidance on how to move forward in your existing relationship, I’m here to support you. 

Is this for me/us?

If you have reservations about whether intimacy and relationship coaching is for you, Voxer me. We can chat, in real-time, and see if it’s a good fit.

Working with Stacey helped us identify the underlying issues in our relationship that prevented us from connecting. She has a way of explaining difficult concepts in a way that is easy to understand. We felt truly heard and understood during our sessions with her, which has made all the difference.

We have learned to appreciate our differences and find common ground when we disagree. Stacey has given us the tools to communicate in a healthy way, and that has made our relationship stronger.

Relationship coaching has made a positive difference for us, and we are so grateful for Stacey’s help!

John & Sarah H.

Seattle, WA

Before working with Stacey, our relationship had hit rock bottom. With her guidance, we were able to develop a deeper understanding of each other’s needs and priorities. She has a remarkable talent for tuning in and truly understanding our unique circumstances. Through active listening and insightful questions, she gave us the tools to communicate effectively and empathetically.

Not only did Stacey assist us in rebuilding our relationship, but she also equipped us with valuable skills for ongoing personal growth and development. We are so grateful for her unwavering support, and we highly recommend her to anyone struggling with relationship challenges.

Michael & Lisa B.

Sydney, Australia

We hadn’t been intimate in nearly two years when we came to Stacey. We were constantly fighting and had little to no communication. Quite honestly, we were on the brink of divorce.

Stacey’s approach was so different from anything we had tried before. With her guidance, we tackled complex topics without resorting to the same old arguments. She created a safe space to express ourselves and reminded us that we were on the same team. We started to enjoy one another again and finally became intimate again.

Stacey’s fresh ideas and honest advice were the key to helping us reconnect. We can’t thank her enough for the guidance and support she gave us.

Mitchell & Tara W.

Anaheim, CA

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