Why isn’t setting sexual intentions a thing?

You set goals for your career, health, finances, relationships. But your sex life? That’s supposed to just… happen naturally?

That’s bullshit. Everything that matters requires intention. That includes your sex life.

In this episode, Stacey walks you through how to set sexual intentions that actually mean something —not vague wishes, but real, specific intentions you can act on.

In this episode:

• Why setting sexual intentions is a great idea
• Questions you should ask yourself
• Knowing what you control vs. what needs partner buy-in
• Pitfalls and ways you could f*ck it up

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Willing to share? Pop over to Substack. And share one of your intentions. Because when you say it out loud, even to strangers on the internet, it becomes more real.

The podcast churns the motor. The stack keeps it running.

On Substack, I dive into the juicy stuff that needs more than 15 minutes. The kinda things that make you go “humph, I never thought about it like that.”

Like why great sex requires emotional labor nobody talks about.

Or why men with smaller dicks are often better lovers (spoiler: it’s about skill, not size).

Or how asking, telling, and listening might be the only sex enhancement you actually need.

No hot takes or how-to guides. Instead, I’m laying down essays that sit at the intersection of nuance and oh damn!

If you’re tired of that Cosmo essential tips and tricks shit and you want the good stuff in the second half… join us.

People who talk about sex have better sex. Go figure?!

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