This week’s episode is for people in long-term relationships who feel like they’ve lost that loving feeling. Whether you’re married, partnered, cohabitating, living apart, long-distance, or right around the corner.

That zing that you felt at the beginning feels nonexistent. Why? Because biology is like that. And people change. Who you were at 30 isn’t who you are beyond 45. Priorities and values shift—life lifes. 

Sometimes you can grow into something new together. Sometimes not. 

This isn’t a Rx for fixing. Just a real conversation about the reality of this experience.

The podcast churns the motor. The stack keeps it running.

On Substack, I dive into the juicy stuff that needs more than 15 minutes. The kinda things that make you go “humph, I never thought about it like that.”

Like why great sex requires emotional labor nobody talks about.

Or why men with smaller dicks are often better lovers (spoiler: it’s about skill, not size).

Or how asking, telling, and listening might be the only sex enhancement you actually need.

No hot takes or how-to guides. Instead, I’m laying down essays that sit at the intersection of nuance and oh damn!

If you’re tired of that Cosmo essential tips and tricks shit and you want the good stuff in the second half… join us.

People who talk about sex have better sex. Go figure?!

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