When Connection is Reduced to a Click

In Episode 21, we’re having an honest conversation about unsolicited photos of genitalia and what they reveal about modern seduction (or lack thereof).
This is bigger than d*ck pics – it’s about how technology has changed the way we approach desire, connection, and intimacy.
We’re digging into:
- The difference between seduction and harassment (with wisdom from Esther Perel)
- Why quick hits of attention leave everyone feeling empty
- A fresh perspective on boundaries that puts you back in control
- How to choose connection over convenience
This conversation might make you think differently about how you engage with desire – both online and off.
With intention,
Mentioned in episode 21:
- Esther Perel on seduction vs. harassment
- Courtship rituals of whales and birds
- The impact of technology on modern connection
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