Coach in Your Pocket

The relationship you want starts with the support you deserve.

You’re successful, insightful, and self-aware. Yet that quiet voice still asks: Shouldn’t there be more to this relationship?

You don’t need someone to validate complaints. You need clarity that feels right in your bones.

Insights don’t arrive on schedule—they hit during errands, in the shower, when words slip out before you can filter them. This mentorship catches those moments before they vanish.

No toxic positivity. No generic communication tips. No settling for scraps.

Instead, you get me in your pocket – direct, honest, and ready when you need a real perspective.

Change happens in unexpected moments—and you need someone who gets it. Because your next chapter deserves more than just fine.

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Magic happens in REAL time.

When you share thoughts as they come up—before you overthink or talk yourself out of them—that’s when breakthroughs happen.

Using Voxer (a free walkie-talkie app), we turn your raw thoughts into solid decisions. No polishing. No second-guessing.

Just you + me, turning gut feelings into clear next steps.

Beyond the Calendar

Your clarity doesn’t wait for an available time slot. Send a message when insight strikes, and you’re in. This kind of support that moves at the speed of your life.

Straight-Talk

No vague affirmations or generic advice. This is real guidance for relationship questions too nuanced for Google, too complicated for friends.

Permission to Spill

That conversation that left you unsettled? The pattern you keep repeating? The boundary you’re scared to set? Bring it all—messy, unfiltered, confused. Everything is welcome here.

From wondering if it’s possible to making shift happen

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Maybe you just need the right support.

Here’s How it Works:

You get direct access to me through Voxer. That means you can send me a voice note anytime —24/7. No Zoom calls. No need to fit it in. We’ll connect on the fly, at your convenience. Or when the sh*t hits the fan.

In-the-Moment Support

Relationship curve balls don’t check your calendar first. Neither do I. Send a voice note when that ex resurfaces, when you’re wavering about setting a boundary, or when you need clarity before having that conversation. I’ll respond within 24 hours—or sooner.

Tell Me ANYTHING!

That relationship question you can’t stop thinking about? The pattern you keep repeating? The need you’re scared to admit? Bring it.

This is where you say it all without being judged—about fading attraction, commitment fears, or sex that’s gone quiet. Nothing is off-limits.

I’m Stacey

Midlife Relationship Coach

I don’t do relationship coaching; I ignite revolutions.

In a world obsessed with fixing what isn’t broken, I’m here to remind you of your fire, your ferocity, your capacity for love.

My background spans years of study in human behavior, relationship dynamics, and personal growth, but my expertise comes through questions that crack you open and a bullshit detector tuned to the frequency of your truth.

Think sacred circles of reinvention. One-on-one sessions that feel like expeditions to your core. Words that summon the woman you’ve always been beneath who you thought you should be.

I’m not here to shepherd you to safe harbors. I’m here to teach you to navigate storms. To find constellations in your chaos. To fall in love with your muchness.

Midlife isn’t a crisis. It’s a chrysalis.

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Stacey helped me through a challenging time in my relationship. I was feeling lost and didn’t know how to communicate with my partner. Stacey helped me understand myself and my needs better and showed me how to express myself in a way my partner could understand. We are now in a much better place, and I am so grateful to Stacey for her help.

Meg, 48

I was newly divorced when I found Stacey. I was struggling with so many things: how to be single again, how to be a good parent… and how to believe in myself. Stacey helped me see that I could do all of those things – and more. She helped me find the courage to start dating again. Stacey is an excellent coach and will help you get to the root of your issues.

Natalia, 52

I never thought I’d need a relationship coach, but after my divorce, I felt lost. Stacey helped me figure out what I wanted in a relationship and how to attract the right kind of person into my life. Stacey seemed to speak my language, and I always felt safe and comfortable sharing with her. I highly recommend her to anyone who is struggling after a divorce or break-up.

Lynn, 41

At Your Convenience

Process. Practice. Progress... in real time.

Personalized coaching, anytime life throws you a curveball.

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A safe space to be heard, understood, and guided—right in your pocket.

the truth beneath the story

We all have stories. They usually start with “He always,” or “I’ll never,” or “If I just fixed…” I’ll help you spot your patterns, call out your own BS (lovingly), and flip the script. Because once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

Skip the years of tears.

Explore, express, and evolve

It’s hard to show up authentically when you’re still rehearsing your lines. This is where you drop the act. No filter, no censor. Just pure, unvarnished you. EVERYTHING is welcome here.

Pretending is exhausting.

Accountability & Clarity

When you’re stuck in your head, everything looks like a dead end. Sometimes you need someone to shine a light on your blind spots. Think of me as your personal clarity catalyst. I got you.

Turn insights into action.

Is this right for you?
You already know. Trust that.