Coach in Your Pocket
21 days to help you figure it out.
When you’re trying to decide to stay or go, if it’s worth the emotional labor, or if you’re just repeating old patterns—life doesn’t pause.
Relationsh*t hits when it hits. The universe has inconvenient timing.
You need clarity now. Not tomorrow or next Tuesday at 2 pm.
Relationship drama doesn’t follow a schedule. Your support shouldn’t either.
21 days. Direct access. Real-time guidance for real life.
BIG shifts happen when you connect on the fly.
Using Voxer (a free app), we turn real-time thoughts into real-life breakthroughs.
When you capture what’s happening while it’s happening—before your brain starts the rationalize-minimize-doubt cycle—that’s where the magic lives.
No filtering, no second-guessing, no “maybe I’m overthinking this.” Just you + me, turning lightbulb moments into lasting change.
Skip The Scheduling Drama
No more calendar Tetris. Simple wins, every time. Download Voxer, send a message, and you’re in.
Zero Fluff, All Focus
You need answers, not another nothing burger. This is real strategies for real situations, delivered straight to your phone.
Always-On Access
Got a lengthy play-by-play of that confusing conversation? Need a quick gut check on those mixed signals? I’m here for it. Spill all the beans. No cap. No limit. EVERYTHING is welcome.
The Most Powerful Problem-Solving-Feedback Loop You’ll Ever Experience
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psst…
maybe you just need a fresh set of ears.
Here’s How it Works:
For 21 days, you’ve got direct access to me through Voxer (think voice messaging, but with purpose). No Zoom calls. No need to fit it in. We’ll connect on the fly, at your convenience. Or when the sh*t hits the fan.
What’s With the 21 Days?
Long enough to dig deep. Short enough to maintain momentum. Perfect for working through a specific situation or season in your life.
Round-The-Clock Access
Real life doesn’t wait for office hours. Neither do I. Send a voice note right after that janky text or when you’re processing that date that went sideways. I’ll respond within 24 hours—or sooner. No scheduling gymnastics required.
Get The Support You Need
Sometimes, you need a reality check. Sometimes, you need help reading between the lines. Sometimes, you just need someone to tell you the truth without sugarcoating.
Need to vent? Do it. Want feedback? You got it. Strategies? Done. Think of me as that back-pocket voice of reason when you’re too close to see straight.
Tell Me ANYTHING!
You know that thing you’ve been rolling around in your head? The one your friends are tired of hearing about. Or that question that feels too silly to say out loud? Bring it.
This is your space; be messy, uncertain, angry, confused—whatever you’re feeling. Everything is welcome here.
I’m Stacey
I don’t do relationship coaching; I ignite revolutions.
In a world obsessed with fixing what isn’t broken, I’m here to remind you of your fire, your ferocity, your capacity for love.
My background spans years of study in human behavior, relationship dynamics, and personal growth, but my expertise comes through questions that crack you open and a bullshit detector tuned to the frequency of your truth.
Think sacred circles of reinvention. One-on-one sessions that feel like expeditions to your core. Words that summon the woman you’ve always been beneath who you thought you should be.
I’m not here to shepherd you to safe harbors. I’m here to teach you to navigate storms. To find constellations in your chaos. To fall in love with your muchness.
Midlife isn’t a crisis. It’s a chrysalis.
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Stacey helped me through a challenging time in my relationship. I was feeling lost and didn’t know how to communicate with my partner. Stacey helped me understand myself and my needs better and showed me how to express myself in a way my partner could understand. We are now in a much better place, and I am so grateful to Stacey for her help.
I was newly divorced when I found Stacey. I was struggling with so many things: how to be single again, how to be a good parent… and how to believe in myself. Stacey helped me see that I could do all of those things – and more. She helped me find the courage to start dating again. Stacey is an excellent coach and will help you get to the root of your issues.
I never thought I’d need a relationship coach, but after my divorce, I felt lost. Stacey helped me figure out what I wanted in a relationship and how to attract the right kind of person into my life. Stacey seemed to speak my language, and I always felt safe and comfortable sharing with her. I highly recommend her to anyone who is struggling after a divorce or break-up.
At Your Convenience
Process. Practice. Progress... in real time.We’ll trade audio messages like texts, but with purpose. You’ll keep living your life and sharing the deets, and I’ll drop wisdom in your pocket. Transformation will creep in between meetings, errands, and deep breaths.
The magic happens in the space between messages while you test-drive suggestions, notice patterns, and catch the subtle shifts you might otherwise have overlook.
When you sign up for Coach in Yor Pocket you’re getting…
The Power to Cut thru the story
We all have stories. They usually start with “I always” or “This never” or “Maybe if I just…” I’ll help you spot your patterns, call out your own BS (lovingly), and flip the script. Because once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
Skip the years of tears.
A safe space to be seen & heard
It’s hard to show up authentically when you’re still rehearsing your lines. This is where you drop the act. No filter, no censor. Just pure, unvarnished you. EVERYTHING is welcome here.
Pretending is exhausting.
Accountability & Clarity
When you’re stuck in your head, everything looks like a dead end. Sometimes you need someone to shine a light on your blind spots. Think of me as your personal clarity catalyst. I got you.
Turn insights into action.
Is this right for you? Maybe.
Check in with your heart and trust what you hear.
Pricing
Service Package
Coach-In-Your-Pocket
21 Days to Shift Your Relationship Reality- Go-At-Your-Own-Pace
- Personal Guidance When You Need It
- Share Your Thoughts in Real-time
- Zero Scheduling Required
- Payment Plans Available at Checkout
Limited spots available to ensure personalized attention for each client.
Still on the fence?
I get it. Making this kind of investment in yourself—especially when you’re in the middle of relationship uncertainty—is a big decision.
Send me a message. See how it works.
- Download Voxer (it’s free!)
- Find me: staceyherrera
- Send me a message starting with “Exploring Coach in Your Pocket”
- Need the visual play-by-play? Click here. 😉
I’ll respond within 24 hours (because sleep is still a thing).
Tired of Mental Ping-Pong?
a clear mind is a voice note away