Coach in Your Pocket

21 days to trust what you know.

When the relationship looks fine on paper but feels hollow in your bones – when you’re caught between staying and leaving – when dating feels like an endless loop of almost-right.

Truth emerges in unexpected moments. In midnight doubts. In morning mirrors. In the space between words.

You need someone who won’t rush you toward forgiveness or hide behind positivity. You need someone who won’t mistake your clarity for bitterness or tell you to be grateful for crumbs.

Real-time supports when sh*t gets real.

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BIG shifts happen when you connect on the fly.

Using Voxer (a free app), we turn unfiltered thoughts into unshakeable knowing.

When you voice what’s true while it’s rising—before doubt creeps in, before you talk yourself out of your own wisdom—that’s where transformation begins.

No editing your feelings, no second-guessing your instincts, no “maybe I should just settle.” Just you + me, turning gut feelings into grounded decisions.

Beyond the Calendar Wall

Your journey to relationship clarity shouldn’t have to wait for an available time slot. Download Voxer, send a message, and you’re in!

Clarity Over Comfort

You need real guidance about your love life, not vague affirmations or generic advice. This is straight-talk support for love’s most challenging questions right in the palm of your hand.

Always-On Access

Replaying that loaded conversation with your partner? Trying to decode mixed signals from your latest date? Questioning if you’re settling or growing? Spill the beans. No editing required. No detail too small. Everything is welcome here.

The Most Powerful Problem-Solving-Feedback Loop You’ll Ever Experience

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maybe you just need a fresh set of ears.

Here’s How it Works:

For 21 days, you’ve got direct access to me through Voxer when your heart is racing after another argument, when you’re staring at that dating app, or when you’re lying awake questioning everything. No Zoom calls. No need to fit it in. We’ll connect on the fly, at your convenience. Or when the sh*t hits the fan.

What’s With the 21 Days?

Long enough to dig deep. Short enough to maintain momentum. Perfect for working through a specific situation or season in your life.

In-the-Moment Support

Relationship curve balls don’t check your calendar first. Neither do I. Send a voice note when that ex resurfaces, when you’re wavering about setting a boundary, or when you need clarity before having that conversation. I’ll respond within 24 hours—or sooner.

Get The Support You Need

Sometimes, you need someone to confirm what your gut already knows. Whether you’re questioning chemistry, setting boundaries, or deciding what’s next. I’ll help you cut through the noise and find your truth.

Tell Me ANYTHING!

That question about your relationship you keep circling back to? The doubt you can’t shake? The desire you haven’t voiced to anyone? Bring it.

This is your space to explore love without judgment—whether you’re wrestling with attraction, questioning commitment, or navigating intimacy. Nothing is off-limits.

I’m Stacey

Midlife Relationship Coach

I don’t do relationship coaching; I ignite revolutions.

In a world obsessed with fixing what isn’t broken, I’m here to remind you of your fire, your ferocity, your capacity for love.

My background spans years of study in human behavior, relationship dynamics, and personal growth, but my expertise comes through questions that crack you open and a bullshit detector tuned to the frequency of your truth.

Think sacred circles of reinvention. One-on-one sessions that feel like expeditions to your core. Words that summon the woman you’ve always been beneath who you thought you should be.

I’m not here to shepherd you to safe harbors. I’m here to teach you to navigate storms. To find constellations in your chaos. To fall in love with your muchness.

Midlife isn’t a crisis. It’s a chrysalis.

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Stacey helped me through a challenging time in my relationship. I was feeling lost and didn’t know how to communicate with my partner. Stacey helped me understand myself and my needs better and showed me how to express myself in a way my partner could understand. We are now in a much better place, and I am so grateful to Stacey for her help.

Meg, 48

I was newly divorced when I found Stacey. I was struggling with so many things: how to be single again, how to be a good parent… and how to believe in myself. Stacey helped me see that I could do all of those things – and more. She helped me find the courage to start dating again. Stacey is an excellent coach and will help you get to the root of your issues.

Natalia, 52

I never thought I’d need a relationship coach, but after my divorce, I felt lost. Stacey helped me figure out what I wanted in a relationship and how to attract the right kind of person into my life. Stacey seemed to speak my language, and I always felt safe and comfortable sharing with her. I highly recommend her to anyone who is struggling after a divorce or break-up.

Lynn, 41

At Your Convenience

Process. Practice. Progress... in real time.

Relationship-ing happens in the details—that gut feeling during dinner, the weight of unspoken words, the clarity in quiet moments. We’ll catch them all.

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When you sign up for Coach in Your Pocket you’re getting…

The Power to Cut thru the story

We all have stories. They usually start with “He always,” or “I’ll never,” or “If I just fixed…” I’ll help you spot your patterns, call out your own BS (lovingly), and flip the script. Because once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

Skip the years of tears.

A safe space to be seen & heard

It’s hard to show up authentically when you’re still rehearsing your lines. This is where you drop the act. No filter, no censor. Just pure, unvarnished you. EVERYTHING is welcome here.

Pretending is exhausting.

Accountability & Clarity

When you’re stuck in your head, everything looks like a dead end. Sometimes you need someone to shine a light on your blind spots. Think of me as your personal clarity catalyst. I got you.

Turn insights into action.

Is this right for you? Maybe.
Check in with your heart and trust what you hear.

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