2025 Year of the Wood Snake. The year you shed what no longer serves you.
The year you emerge renewed. This is the year you reclaim your truth.
This is your starting point.
The beginning of a deeper exploration into who you are as a midlife woman and how you connect. Sovereignty guides you toward a life of transformation, where patterns are broken, and relationships are designed to nourish your soul.
Tired of falling into the same traps in your relationships? Let’s change that.
Sovereignty offers a deeper path for the woman who is tired of surface-level solutions and endless cycles of the same heartbreak.
This is your invitation to step into the kind of relationship—with yourself and others—that feels grounded, nourishing, and real.
It’s time to move from just understanding your patterns to taking action to transform them.
Does this sound familiar?
You’ve done all the “right” things:
- Read every relationship book on your shelf
- Invested in therapy and personal growth
- Worked on setting boundaries
- Tried to communicate better
- Even “faked it till you make it”
Yet here you are – still feeling stuck in patterns that don’t serve you. Still making yourself smaller to keep peace. Still choosing what’s familiar over what’s true.
My Story
I used to think my patterns were protection. But they were just my first response to pain, repeated so many times they felt like truth.
I mastered the art of almost-connection. I bent until I nearly broke, stayed silent to keep peace, and made myself smaller and smaller until I almost disappeared. I thought that if I just gave a little more and tried a little harder, everything would fall into place.
The call was coming from inside the house.
Those relationship dynamics I kept trying to fix? They weren’t the problem. My reflexive response to pain was choosing them long before I knew I was choosing.
It wasn’t until I caught myself about to sacrifice my peace for someone else’s comfort again – that something shifted. Not dramatically. Not all at once. Just a sliver of awareness —I had a choice.
That’s how Sovereignty was born. Not from theory, but observing my own behavior and making conscious choices, one response at a time.
This program is an invitation to join me in that space between trigger and response. Where transformation lives. Where better relationships become possible.
This Is Your Moment to Choose Differently
Sovereignty isn’t another program about understanding yourself better. It’s not about adding more tools to your already-full toolbox. And it’s definitely not about forcing yourself to be “better.”
This is about:
- Moving from overthinking to actually changing
- Creating relationships that feel as good as they look
- Speaking your truth without shrinking
- Trusting your body’s wisdom
- Making real choices from a place of power
If you’re nodding along, you’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure this out by yourself.
Four Months. Four Cycles.
One: SHED
Get out of your head
Breaking up with should
Being real instead of right
Three: SENSE
Trusting your body
Noticing without reacting
Navigating hard conversations
Two: SOFTEN
Swapping force for flow
Vulnerability + Intimacy
Sex, desire, and midlife bodies
Four: SHIFT
Practice makes better
Create space for possibility
Relationship w/o self-abandonment
Core Elements
The Structure
- Two monthly calls
- Coaching in the DMs
- Private community
The Framework
- Everything is optional
- Move at your own pace
- Growth isn’t linear
The Agreements
- Everything is welcome
- Your story is YOURS
- Witness w/o judgment
The Container
- Life is the classroom
- Bring your whole self
- Resistance has wisdom
Real transformation at your pace.
Why Sovereignty is Different
This isn’t about collecting more insights or better understanding yourself. It’s about choosing differently, right where you are.
- Real-time support: When you’re caught in an old pattern, you get support right there. No waiting. No storing it for later. We work with what’s alive now.
- Practical implementation: Insights are applied directly to your daily life. Experiment with new behaviors and reflect on real-world experiences—no busy work required.
- Safe and supportive space: In this container resistance is welcome, progress isn’t linear, and you can’t fall behind. Everything is optional, but nothing is trivial.
No quick fixes or gimmicks. Practical guidance to make shift happen.
A note about timing and readiness…
You haven’t missed your chance.
You’re not too late.
You’re exactly where you need to be to begin.
Whether you’re questioning everything in your relationship, cycling through the same dating patterns, navigating a separation, or staying and wanting real change – timing isn’t about perfect circumstances. It’s about being ready to choose —differently.
This Is Definitely for You If:
- You’re willing to do the inner work and make shift happen.
- You crave deeper connection and intimacy.
- You’re tired of repeating the same patterns.
- You value a supportive, judgment-free community.
- You’re ready to design relationships from a place of wholeness.
Hear From Those Who’ve Walked This Path
Patricia L., 61
“I spent 25 years trying to make my marriage work. Then one day, I just walked away without a plan. Honestly, I felt like a complete failure—who starts over at my age? Working with Stacey changed everything. She told me I wasn’t crazy for wanting something else, and it wasn’t too late to choose myself. These days, I actually wake up excited about my life and what’s ahead.”
Jen R., 49
“Stacey cuts through the BS and helps you see what’s really holding you back. I was successful at work but kept hitting the same wall in relationships. She helped me break the patterns I didn’t even know I had. Now I’m done approaching relationships from fear.”
Barbara M., 55
“Working with Stacey opened my eyes to patterns I’d been repeating for decades. After my divorce at 52, I kept attracting emotionally unavailable men. She helped me understand why and showed me how to set clear boundaries. Now I’m in a relationship that feels secure and authentic for the first time in my life.”
the transformation begins February 6th
Investment Options
One Payment
- Bi-monthly group calls
- Private Coaching in the DMs
- Simple Integration practices
- Private Virtual Community
Two Payments OF
- Bi-monthly group calls
- Private Coaching in the DMs
- Simple Integration practices
- Private Virtual Community
Additional third-party payment options available at checkout
Limited to 12 participants to ensure an intimate, transformative experience.
What if I don’t have time for a program like this?
Sovereignty is designed to fit your life. With optional practices and no rigid requirements, you’ll engage at your own pace.
Is this program for me if I’m currently single?
Absolutely. Whether you’re married, divorcing, or dating, this program helps you build the foundation for healthy, fulfilling relationships—starting with yourself.
How much support will I get?
In addition to the group calls, you’ll have access to private mentorship in the DMs for personalized guidance
The transformation this program offers is invaluable: gaining clarity, reclaiming your voice, and stepping into a life of empowered relationships.