EP 70 | April 22, 2026
Sometimes We Want Intimacy More Than Sex (But We Don't Always Know It)
What happens when a married man logs onto a dating app looking for sex, only to discover he’s in search of something else?
In this episode, Stacey recounts a six-hour phone call with a stranger that unexpectedly delves into the nuance of intimacy.
Sometimes what we think we want hides what we really need.
The podcast churns the motor. The stack keeps it running.
On Substack, I dive into the juicy stuff that needs more than 15 minutes. The kinda things that make you go “humph, I never thought about it like that.”
Like why great sex requires emotional labor nobody talks about.
Or why men with smaller dicks are often better lovers (spoiler: it’s about skill, not size).
Or how asking, telling, and listening might be the only sex enhancement you actually need.
No hot takes or how-to guides. Instead, I’m laying down essays that sit at the intersection of nuance and oh damn!
If you’re tired of that Cosmo essential tips and tricks shit and you want the good stuff in the second half… join us.
People who talk about sex have better sex. Go figure?!
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