Me, Again
For the woman who's done abandoning herself to make others comfortable.
It starts with a whisper you can barely hear.
A voice inside that says, “I want more than this.”
At first, it’s easy to ignore. You’ve gotten good at that—silencing your needs, swallowing your words, shrinking yourself to fit into spaces that were never meant to hold all of you.
But the whisper gets louder.
Maybe it shows up in your body first—sex doesn’t feel good anymore, or you find yourself exhausted in ways sleep can’t fix.
Maybe it’s with your partner—the conversations feel emptier, the silences heavier, the resentment sharper.
Or maybe it’s in the mirror—when you look at yourself and suddenly wonder, “Who am I, really? And what do I actually want?”
This isn’t a midlife crisis.
This is your soul refusing to be abandoned any longer.
Your relationships aren't the problem.
It’s that you’ve been taught that keeping the peace matters more than speaking your truth.
That everyone else’s needs should come before your own.
That “good women” don’t rock the boat.
For years, maybe decades, you’ve followed these unwritten rules. You’ve been the supportive wife, the understanding friend, the mother who puts everyone else first.
And now something in you is saying enough.
But as you start to change—to voice your needs, to set boundaries, to claim space—everything gets complicated.
Your partner says, “I don’t even recognize you anymore.”
Your friends get uncomfortable when you stop playing small.
Your family acts like you’ve betrayed them by simply being honest.
And part of you wonders if they’re right. If you’re asking for too much. If you should just go back to the way things were.
The real challenge isn't finding your voice—it's using it without apologizing, even when everyone around you wishes you wouldn't.
This Is Where I Come In...
I’m Stacey, and I help women like you stop abandoning themselves.
This is a 1:1 coaching experience when we will:
- Identify the specific ways you’ve learned to silence yourself to keep others comfortable
- Disrupt the relationship patterns that have kept you locked in cycles of self-abandonment
- Find and use your authentic voice, even when your throat tightens and your heart races
- Create boundaries that honor your needs without excessive explanation or guilt
- Determine which relationships can evolve with you and which ones have served their purpose
No bullshit, no generic advice, no forced positivity.
This is straight-up support and honest truth about what it takes to reclaim yourself.
How it works...
We begin with a 90-minute deep dive where we get brutally honest about your self-abandonment patterns and the specific ways they’re showing up in your relationships..
After that, the support adapts to you:
Anytime Voxer Support puts me in your pocket when you need guidance most. About to have a hard conversation? Just had one? Feel yourself slipping into old patterns? Send me a voice message and I’ll respond within 24 hours (often much sooner).
Optional Bi-Weekly Sessions give you space for deeper exploration when you need it. These aren’t mandatory—they’re there when you want them, focused entirely on what you’re navigating in real time.
Everything is designed for real life. No homework you won’t do. No rigid schedule to stress about. Just the kind of support that actually works for your already full life.
By the end of our time together, you’ll be more of yourself. Not the woman you were before—someone better. The woman you are meant to be.
This Is For You If:
- You’re tired of swallowing your words to keep the peace
- You feel like you’ve outgrown your relationship but aren’t sure if it can evolve with you
- Your needs and desires have changed and you don’t know how to express them
- You find yourself resentful of the people you love most
- You want to speak your truth without burning everything to the ground
- You’re done abandoning yourself to make others comfortable
WOMEN WHO RECLAIMED THEMSELVES
“I spent 17 years being ‘easy to please’ in my marriage. Working with Stacey helped me find my voice again. When I finally told my husband what I actually needed, he was relieved. He said, ‘I’ve been waiting for the real you to come back.’ Now we’re building something honest instead of comfortable.“
— Jennifer, 47
“After my divorce, I kept attracting men who seemed different but somehow always made me feel small. Stacey helped me see how I was setting relationships up to fail by abandoning myself from the very first date. For the first time, I’m with someone who actually wants all of me—not just the convenient parts.“
— Melinda, 52
“I thought my marriage was over because I’d changed too much. Stacey helped me see that the problem was that I was hiding. When I got honest about who I was becoming, it was terrifying. But it created space for my husband to be honest, too. Now it feels like I’m in a brand new relationship!”
— Diane, 49
Apply to Work With Me
I only work with 4 women at a time.
The application takes about 10 minutes. Be honest—I can spot the difference between someone who’s ready and someone who’s still weighing options.
I’ll review your answers and respond within 48 hours. If I believe I can help you, I’ll invite you to a conversation where we’ll explore what’s possible.
No pressure, no manipulation, no sales tactics. Just a real conversation about whether this work is right for you right now.
Meet Stacey
We all deserve to love and be loved well. Our worth is undeniable and non-negotiable.
My path here wasn’t straight. As a recovering people-pleaser (and serial cheater), I lost myself trying to meet everyone else’s needs. That reckoning led me to this work—helping women reclaim themselves without blowing up their lives.
Human behavior fascinates me. I majored in English but nearly minored in psych. Still, my real expertise comes from lived experience—my life is the syllabus I teach from.
I mix no-nonsense honesty with deep compassion. I won’t tell you what you want to hear, but I’ll always tell you what you need to hear—with love.
I host Love Is… and am launching Sacred Ground, a community for women navigating relationship evolution, in June 2025.
If you’re ready to stop abandoning yourself—to speak your truth even when your voice shakes—you’re in the right place.
YOUR INVESTMENT
- 90-minute deep dive session
- Optional Bi-weekly sessions
- Anytime Voxer support
- Bespoke Resources
Additional payment options through third-parties available at check out.
Want to continue after 8 weeks?
Monthly Support: $495/month
- Ongoing Voxer support
- Insights without scheduled calls
- Cancel anytime
Questions You Might Have
Is this a group program?
Nope. Me, Again is a private 1:1 experience.
Just you and me—walking together through your return to self. No audience. No group calls. Just sacred space for your truth, your voice, your pace.
How is this different from therapy?
Therapy is often about healing the past.
Me, Again is about reclaiming the present.
We’ll acknowledge your history, but we won’t stay there. This work is future-facing. It’s embodied, intuitive, and focused on what you’re ready to create now.
Instead of diagnosing or dissecting, we’ll notice patterns and gently disrupt them in real time. You’ll be practice self-loyalty as it’s happening.
This isn’t about talking about your life.
It’s about changing how you live it—moment by moment.
How much time will this take each week?
We’ll move at a pace that honors your capacity.
Me, Again isn’t about hustling through healing or checking boxes. The real magic happens in our voice note exchanges—ongoing, spacious, real-time support that fits into your actual life.
You’ll also have the option to book up to four private coaching sessions with me, but this work is designed to meet you exactly where you are.
What if I don't even know what I want yet?
That’s actually perfect. Most women come to me feeling this exact uncertainty—knowing something needs to change but not exactly what. Clarity comes through the process, not before it.
What if my spouse/partner isn't supportive of my changes?
That’s a real possibility. I’ll help you communicate in ways that reduce defensiveness and create understanding. That said, not every relationship will survive your evolution—and that’s information you deserve to have.
What if I’m afraid of what I’ll find once I stop performing?
That’s normal. Most women I work with feel that fear—because they’ve spent years prioritizing everyone else. You won’t have to do this alone. I’ll be right there with you, gently and consistently, as you learn to stay with yourself in every part of the process.
How do I know if I'm ready?
You’re ready when the pain of staying the same become greater than the fear of change. If you’re tired of abandoning yourself. If you’re willing to be uncomfortable in service of creating something better. If that’s you, apply now.