Is Your Picker Broken?
Your picker isn’t broken, my love. Don’t worry. You are not doomed to repeat the same relationship patterns forever.
Episode 5 of Love Is… is a deep dive into why the “wrong” one might be one of your greatest teachers and how every connection —even the baddies —can catapult growth.
Relationships are not vending machines for happiness. But they are fertilizers for evolution.
Get ready to shift your focus from “who” you’re picking to how you’re showing up, and discover how to use curiosity to disrupt those pesky patterns.
Reminder: All timing is divine.
You have the power to shape your story, and love is evolution. So let’s make shift happen!
xo,
Mentioned in episode 5:
- Terry Real – Family Therapist, Speaker. and Author – Relationships move through a natural cycle of “harmony, disharmony, and repair.”
- Esther Perel – “The constant changes that we go through, the liquid life that we live, demands that our relational skills be primarily able to change.”
- Buddhist Proverb – “When you change, everything in your environment changes.”
- The Littlest Soul and the Sun Parable – Based on Conversations with God By Neale Donald Walsch
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